Being a Judgmental Never Wins
Throughout a day, people judge you by the way you dress, talk, walk or kind of work/job you do.
Conscious of Appearance
In our surroundings, we use to interact people through sight. So, we are always conscious of appearance. All the day we worry how someone will “Think of Me”. Therefore, we usually spend our day putting make-up or carrying a well-known brand of clothes. Thus, everyone spend a lot of money and a great deal of time tweaking his or her images to be the most liked person.
Let me clear I am not against being a good-looking person. But, being a judgmental all the time kills the creativity. Because, it is not productive to use and follow other’s ideas.
Conscious of People
Even in relationships, personal or professional, one can easily find the examples of judgmental tendencies. We make friends having an idea or image of how we want a friend to be. We want our child, according to our imagination. We accept partners only if he or she is ready to try to change himself or herself according to our wishes.
Fear of Social Media Comments
The growing trend of posting short videos on social media has also increased the consciousness of looking good. There are people who have become famous after the eye-candy videos. The videos are based on how they look, talk or walk. This is major reason why people are fearful of being judged based on their looks, voice or background.
It is Never Ending
Now, being a judgmental is a never ending game. Although every other person is losing creativity to build a better personality but they are busy in being liked over social media.
We have become judgmental not only for others but for ourselves. We are busy in matching pants or bags. Even people have become conscious of their cellphone covers. Materialism has lost the necessary use of creative ideas in a life.
Loss of Own Style
There is a need to practice no care of being judged by others. It is only possible when we feel confident for what we wear or do. Life is not about being liked by others. Anyone can pass or post comment. But, those who are passing comments are actually experiencing panic or following the same concept of being judgmental.
Conclusion
Society has set some of the parameters to look modest and groomed. But, rules are made to break. Anyhow, there is an urgent need to focus on the loss of own ideas. Why to follow others? Everyone must have own realization to maintain style of clothes and retaining relationships.
Suggestion
People who changed the world were not the one who kept on following others. Instead, they created their way of living a life or doing something. Inspiration lies where there is a person who doesn’t care about other’s comments. He or she creates own attractive personality. So, being judgmental is not a positive energy to keep. But, it is a negative vibe for ourselves and others too. There must be positive energy to accept whenever you don’t feel comfortable in certain style and change according to your ideas. The winning moment is when you feel good in what you Wear or Do!
